How Can We Have
Fellowship?
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Edward Byrd
It is not by getting all, or a majority, to agree with
me. As desirable as that might be, it is not the way, even
without any consideration as to whether my views are right or
wrong. The goal must be that we all come to agree that Christ
is the Head of the church and each of us is to surrender our
hearts and lives to Him. All agree with me this far, I
expect, but how do we come to such a state?
I believe that a revival always has to begin in
individual hearts. A church may vote to have a revival, and
in their minds agree that this would be a wonderful goal, but
we have to begin at the right place. I must come personally
to the Lord with my cold heart and humble myself before Him
if I am to have cleansing and refreshing. Doctrinal agreement
is a good thing, of course, but first it is essential for
hearts to be right with God. Yes, hearts must be in harmony
with others, but this comes only as we are in harmony with
Him. So much of the time individuals become so spiritually
cold until they are not even aware of the sins in their
lives!
We attend the services, we hear the songs and the
sermon, the Sunday School lessons, but we are not stirred.
Can this happen to a person who has trusted Jesus as Savior,
even one who belongs to the church? Yes, it does. There is a
preponderance of influences through most of the hours of the
week, so that the short services on Sunday, and even
Wednesday night, do not stir us. Our hearts are hard. The
news, the sports, the shows, the job, the problems, the
habits of life, all combine to dull our spiritual sensibility
and draw us away from God. We unconsciously compare ourselves
with other believers and feel we add up pretty well. But have
we given much thought to the way God feels?
Revive Thy Work
Revive thy work, O Lord! Thy mighty arm make bare;
Speak with the voice that wakes the dead, And make Thy
people hear.
Revive thy work, O Lord! Disturb this sleep of
death;
Quicken the smould'ring embers now By Thine almighty
breath.
Revive Thy work, O Lord! Create soul-thirst for
thee;
But hung'ring for the bread of life, Oh, may our
spirits be!
Revive Thy work, O Lord! Exalt Thy precious name;
And, by the Holy Spirit, our love For Thee and Thine
inflame.
Revive!... Revive!... And give, oh, give refreshing
show'ers;
the glory shall be all Thine own; the blessing shall be
ours
-- Alfred Midlane
There Are Two Elements in Revival
First, possibly foremost, "Let it begin in
me." My concern should be to see that I am personally
surrendered to the Lord and aware that He is pleased with my
desire to love and serve Him. That is not to say that I must
feel that my life is all right, for it may be far from it,
but I must be sure that I have put the matter into His hands.
The second element is that the whole church needs to be
revived. My repentance and my praying must be reflected in my
concern.
In this day of cold hearts there is entirely too much
complacency. We will not say that we are all in good
spiritual condition, but we are not willing to admit sin is
sin, as God sees it. Here is a case in point when we think of
sin: Heb 10:25: "Not forsaking the assembling of
ourselves together, as the manner of some [is]; but exhorting
[one another]: and so much more, as ye see the day
approaching" (AV). Is it sin to forsake the
assembly? Yes, but in our complacency it is so easy to excuse
it, both in ourselves and in our homes and in our brethren.
The children deserve some consideration so we let them go to
games on Sunday and miss church, but we are responsible for
them so we go with them. Good enough? Will the Lord say this
should be an exception to the command to forsake not the
assembling of yourselves together? I think not. My business
requires my absence. It is a part of my making a living for
my family. Good enough? Perhaps not. Are we honoring the Lord
with that absence? About missing Sunday School regularly and
coming in just in time for the sermon? Good enough? Very
doubtful! Why? Because it is not obeying the gospel.
Take a look at 1 Peter 4:1-19. Every facet of our
lives must conform to the end of obeying the gospel of God
(v. 17). This judgment is to begin in this life and will not
wait until the next age. True we must judge ourselves (1 Cor.
11:31). Individually, first, then as a church. In fact, this
judgment must begin at the house of God. We may find all
sorts of faults in professing Christians and in the world,
but it is the church that needs to be above reproach.
Take those excuses for missing church. Do we agree
that it is sin? So what do we do about it? Mt 18:15:
"Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go
and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he
shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother"
(KJV). "And if thy brother sin against thee, go, show
him his fault between thee and him alone: if he hear thee,
thou hast gained thy brother" (ASV). The verb
"trespass" in the KJV is "sin" in the
American Standard Version. "SIN" is correct.
"Against you" is "eis se;" a word
sometimes difficult to bring into English. This is not a sin
"against" me,but one which extends to me (is unto
me), that is, a sin which I know about. Nothing is said about
how I learned it. Just take note of the fact that it is not
something committed against me. After all, which is more
serious, a sin against me individually, or a sin against the
Lord? It is sin against the Lord and against His church which
is intended.
Can we not agree that forsaking the assembling is a
sin against the Lord and against His church? Perhaps those so
regularly forsaking the assembling, missing Sunday School
every Sunday, or attending ball games, do not realize they
are sinning against the Lord and His church.
Peter tells us in the aforementioned chapter we shall
give account to Him that is ready to judge the quick and the
dead (v. 5). 1 Peter 4:6: "For this cause was the
gospel preached also to them that are dead, that they might
be judged according to men in the flesh, but live according
to God in the spirit" (AV). Here the gospel is said
to be preached so that men who are dead (spiritually) can be
judged, but live meantime "according to God in the
spirit." This is the standard which the gospel sets.
All sin, therefore, is against God and contrary to His
gospel. We do not have to find an individual commandment
other than Mt. 18:14-18 commanding us to deal with such a
brother. Laziness is such a sin (2 Thes. 3:6 with verse 10).
More specifically, it is gossip, being a busybody (1Peter
4:15). That is disorderly. The word is a term used in the
military, meaning "out of step." There is an order
of walk for men who believe the gospel. A primary principle
of the order is devotion to Christ. Love of the brethren
comes in here.
Church discipline is a part of God's order. Jesus
set it in the church (Mt. 18:14-19). As the Church Covenant
states, we are to "watch over one another in brotherly
love." This is the meaning of the last reference. Apart
from the exercise of church discipline a membership becomes
complacent, explaining sin away by one means or another. They
judge God by themselves. Because they are willing to
compromise or negotiate with differing views they feel that
God will also. This is a great mistake!
There is a better way than compromise. It is a
humbling of one's self before God and coming to see
issues as He sees them. It may call for some changing, but it
will not be compromise; it will be repentance. Just remember,
Prov. 29:25, "The fear of man bringeth a snare: but
whoso putteth his trust in the Lord shall be safe"
(AV).
Conclusion Regarding Fellowship
That is real fellowship which is fellowship with
Christ. Nothing else is true Fellowship! It may be
friendship, social fraternizing, or some charitable activity.
But Bible Fellowship must begin with and continue in
agreement with Christ in heart and life. He loves that. He
delights to walk in his gardens, enjoying the divine elements
of His own fullness.
Such fellowship cannot be imitated. It ceases to exist
when it is imitated. It is forbidden with the world. That is,
all agreeable unions, organizations, programs which assume to
belong to heaven's pleasure but only serve the sin
nature, cannot be brotherly fellowship in Christ (2 Cor.
4:4-6). Such is better understood when we understand that we
were called to fellowship with Him. 1 Cor. 1:9 "God [is]
faithful, by whom ye were called unto the fellowship of his
Son Jesus Christ our Lord" (AV). This fellowship is
larger that your personal relationship with Christ, for it
includes the others who are in fellowship with Him. This the
fellowship "of" Christ, also called
"fellowship of the Spirit," this is
"spiritual fellowship" (Php. 2:1). Such
fellowship involves the apostles' doctrine, the breaking
of bread, and prayers (Acts 2:42). The same word (Gk.
Koi-nonia) is contribution (Rom. 15:26), communion (1Cor.
10:16), and other words descriptive of sharing (giving). The
broad scope of this word is circumscribed by those spiritual
factors which forbids a socialistic or communistic
combination.
A combination word (sugkoinonos, verb form sugkoinoeo)
occurs about seven times. It simply describes a sharing
together.
Another word for relationship is consolation
(paraklesis), Also rendered comfort, exhortation, entreaty
(cf. 2 Cor. 1:4-6). This word describes the emotion of
fellowship with Christ. I suggest that this consolation,
including the exhortation, is sadly lacking in our fellowship
today.
If we begin with the apostles' doctrine and
continue with fellowship, breaking of bread, and prayers the
soul will be satisfied with the sweetness, the blessedness,
the grace, which should characterize believers in
Christ.
The joy of salvation depends on it. Psalm 51:12:
"Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me
[with thy] free spirit" (AV). David lost the joy of
his salvation because he had sinned and God's conviction
caused the joy to be gone. Neh. 8:10: "For the joy
of the LORD is your strength" (AV). Do we wonder why
we, as a church, are so weak? True happiness can only be
found in Him. Ps 73:26: "My flesh and my heart faileth:
[but] God [is] the strength of my heart, and my portion for
ever" (AV). Note how Jesus laid out the program for
happiness in His Sermon on the Mount, Mt 5:3-12. See Psalm
128:2; Prov. 28:14. Thus does the fear of God produce genuine
happiness on earth today.
Job 5:17 "Behold, happy [is] the man whom God
correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the
Almighty" (AV).
James 5:11 "Behold, we count them happy which
endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen
the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of
tender mercy" (AV).
I yearn for more and better fellowship, spiritual
fellowship, with my own church as well as with other brethren
of the Lord's churches. We must have it now. The
end-time situation will make it nearly impossible.
May we pray for a revival now!
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